Peer pressure
HOW I DATED A BLESSER BECAUSE OF PEER PRESSURE
Blesser/blessee' relationship is a type of transactional sexual relationship in which a 'blesser', usually an older and/ or more financially stable male, can provide gifts to young women in the form of money, luxury items, and luxurious trips in exchange for a sexual relationship.
The eager of wanting to impress friends lead me into an old man's bed.I met this guy who was old enough to be my father.I agreed to date him because of the money he had,the cars he drove and all the fancy places promised to take me to.Yes, he didn't make empty promises,he did fulfil all his promises and gave me all I wanted.My focus was now on him,I had no time for my studies all I thought about was "the next place " he would take me to.I am now repeating my final year because of him.I cannot forget the look on my mother's fave when I told her that I failed.
Dear readers do you think it is wise to date older people?
I've been in the same position whereby I had to do horrible things for survival so I fully understand.
ReplyDeleteThe pain is so unbearable
Delete😭oh no you led both yourself and mother down
ReplyDeleteBlesser and a blessee relationship is not easy at all you tent to do things that you never thought you would do
ReplyDeleteWe fail to accept our home situations😔
ReplyDeleteI think it's not a good move🙄
ReplyDeleteI personally support the idea of having a blesser, it only depend on how you play the game
ReplyDeleteEbile ke game🤣🤣😂
DeleteLol you ought to learn to balance things 😅😅 and I don't think you should blame the blesser for your academic performance! Learn balance😊
ReplyDeleteHmmm...this is sad😢. Sorry girl
ReplyDeleteThe problem with us is that we don't want to work hard for improvement we want to find things readily available
ReplyDeleteAt least you have learned a lesson
ReplyDeleteIt's a sad story because after all those fancy things you led both yourself and your mother down because she was expecting the best out of you...
ReplyDeleteI really wished to have one but now eyyy😂
ReplyDeleteSeriously I don't advise you frnd
DeleteThere is possibility that the 'blesser' has multiple sexual partners at a time, which means that they are at higher risk of contracting and transmitting STIs including HIV.
ReplyDeleteI think ladies should first except that current situation and focus om being independent and being financial stable....having a blessed mean nothing but being abused both emotionally and physically with an elderly person who is supposed to be more like a parent to, high possibility of contacting sexual transmitted infections and being being trafficked..
ReplyDeleteYou let yourself down and your mother
ReplyDeletePeer pressure will kill you
ReplyDeleteYou need to find balance between school and relationship life
ReplyDeletePeer pressure leads alot of people to a wrong route most of the time. Atleast you've seen how bad it is and you'll be able to teach your kids or maybe advise the next generation to accept and appreciate the least they have or Thier parents can offer .
ReplyDeletePeer pressure is dangerous atleast you learned a lesson though it was a hard way and I think we don't have to judge you because we are saints
ReplyDeleteI mean we are not saints
ReplyDeleteYou need to find balance in relationship and school
ReplyDeleteIt was just a lesson.. Heal baby girl
ReplyDeleteWell life is all about survival, buh sometimes we don't have to do this type of things just because we gotta survive
ReplyDeleteFinding a balance in life is important..we all go through different experiences in life at one stage or another
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