Peer pressure

 How got into debts because of peer pressure Debt is something, usually money, borrowed by one party from another. Debt is used by many corporations and individuals to make large purchases that they could not afford under normal circumstances. A debt arrangement gives the borrowing party permission to borrow money under the condition that it is to be paid back at a later date, usually with interest. Most of my friends were from wealthy families.They bought new clothes for every event that we had to attend.I wanted to be like them,we were friends after all so I decided to go to a loan shark in order to buy new clothes.I took R20 000 but my actual monthly allowance was R16000.I struggled to pay the money and the loan shark took everything that I owned not that only but also my mother's furniture at home. Dear readers is it worth it to compare our selves with our friends?

 How I got hospitalised  To be hospitalised is to take someone to  stay  in a  hospital  because of  illness  or  injury : As usual my friends urged me to go to the party with them.I agreed because I wanted to know what V_class looks like on the inside.I wanted  to take pictures with them of course so I decided to go.I was so wasted that I woke up in the hospital not knowing what happened. Fellow readers,have you ever found yourselves in the same situation? And how did you handle it?

 How I became an alcoholic Alcoholism is  the most serious form of problem drinking at a level that causes harm to your health . It describes a strong, often uncontrollable, desire to drink. Alcoholism is also known as alcohol addiction or alcohol dependence. Medically, it's recognised as a type of 'alcohol-use disorder' which can be treated Dear readers, have you ever found yourselves in the similar situation?

 How I suffered from depression Depression is a mental health disorder characterised by persistently depressed mood or loss of interest in activities, causing significant impairment in daily life. Possible causes include a combination of biological, psychological and social sources of distress. Increasingly, research suggests that these factors may cause changes in brain function, including altered activity of certain neural circuits in the brain. Dear readers what do you think are the other causes of depression?

 How I faked my death I did not want to associate with my friends anymore because of the bad decisions I made when I was with them. My cousin helped me to spread rumours on social media that I was dead,I lost all contact with all the people that cared about me because I wanted to get out of that friendship. Dear viewers how do you cut ties with bad friends?

 How I fell pregnant As I have mentioned before that all I wanted was to please my friends,they introduced me to this new guy who claimed to love me.My friends were so happy for me,they told me that I was now on another level of live because this guy took me to school, bought me lunch and everything that I wanted.We were all happy until I found out that I was pregnant,my friends told me that they want nothing to do with a pregnant friend, that is not just their style.I told my boyfriend that I was pregnant he laughed at me and said that the baby is not his and he has his own wife.I am now raising a 10 months baby without a father. Dear readers ,what are the signs of a married man?

 How I became human trafficking victim Human trafficking is the  unlawful act of transporting or coercing people in order to benefit from their work or service, typically in the form of forced labour or sexual exploitation. It was Sunday afternoon my friends and I decided to go to Bar one .I had no money at but they told not to worry everything is sorted, meaning we'll get what ever we wanted.Whe we got there my friends introduced me to some guys ,two men and a female,there were so many drinks.I've never seen so much alcohol.I was actually bored I decided to log on Facebook that is where I saw that this two men and a female are actually human trafficking suspects I immediately called the police within a blink of an eye. Dear readers what can you say about human trafficking?

 How I overdosed pills because of peer pressure An overdose is when you take more than the normal or recommended amount of something, often a drug. An overdose may result in serious, harmful symptoms or death. I couldn't face my friends after I told the police that they're the ones who introduced me to drugs.Immediatley when I got home from the police station,I went into my bedroom , locked the door and took 10 Allerjex pills. Dear readers what do you think of people who try to commit suicide? Or have you ever tried to commit suicide?

 How I got expelled from school I could not focus on my private life and school at the same time, school was now boring on my side.That is when my friends and I decided to set a trap for a lecturer,I was the only one who got caught,I immediately got expelled.I did not tell my parents about this. Dear readers have you ever been in this kind of situation before?

 How I almost got killed  It was Friday evening,my friends invited me to big boy's party. The truth is,I have always wanted to chill with the big boys but I never knew that it was dangerous.As we were dancing,men in black came out of nowhere,they started shooting,I hid myself in the basement which I was shown earlier that day by one of the big boys .I had to hide in there until they were gone, that's how I managed to survive. Fellow readers,have you ever found yourselves in the similar situation?

 How I became a drug addict because of peer pressure person who has become physically or psychologically dependent on a chemical substance : a drug addict. a person with an uncontrolled compulsion to continue engaging in an activity despite suffering negative personal or professionally. All my friends used drugs so I wanted to fit in, little did I know that I was destroying my life. Dear readers do you happen to know anyone who is a drug addict and how were they helped?

 How I slept in prison because of peer pressure We were from a school trip,some decided to bring drugs to school.They were considered to be the coolest or dope girls at school,I wanted to know how it feels like to be one of them.They offered me Some drugs to sniff a little and I fainted after sniffing,I woke up on a hospital,the doctor said that he found drugs in my blood.I was trembling,he asked me where I got them,I couldn't talk,they were going to call me a snitch.The Police arrived and took me to the police station,I slept there. Dear reader ,what would you do if you find yourself in this position?

  Rape  is a type of  sexual assault  usually involving  sexual intercourse  or other forms of  sexual penetration  carried out against a person without that person's  consent . The act may be carried out by physical force,  coercion ,  abuse of authority , or against a person who is incapable of giving valid consent, such as one who is unconscious, incapacitated, has an  intellectual disability , or is below the legal  age of consent .   I was from my friend's birthday party 🎉 I actually did not have fun because I just went there to impress them.I drank so much without even realising,I could not walk properly.My friends hired me a cab they said I do not have to pay for it since it's their friend's car. They told me that I'm in safe hands,all I need to do is to relax.This man began touching my thighs,I was so scared and he told me that all I need to do is to" relax".He kept on touching me until his car got a tire pun...

  Suicide is death caused by injuring oneself with the intent to die. A suicide attempt is when someone harms themselves with any intent to end their life, but they do not die as a result of their actions. After failing my final year,my mother was so disappointed,my friends were no longer there for me and my blesser was also gone.I was lonely and felt neglected,the only option I had in mind was to commit suicide.

  HOW I DATED A BLESSER BECAUSE OF PEER PRESSURE Blesser/blessee' relationship is a type of transactional sexual relationship in which a 'blesser', usually an older and/ or more financially stable male, can provide gifts to young women in the form of money, luxury items, and luxurious trips in exchange for a sexual relationship. The eager of wanting to impress friends lead me into an old man's bed.I met this guy who was old enough to be my father.I agreed to date him because of the money he had,the cars he drove and all the fancy places promised to take me to.Yes, he didn't make empty promises,he did fulfil all his promises and gave me all I wanted.My focus was now on him,I had no time for my studies all I thought about was "the next place " he would take me to.I am now repeating my final year because of him.I cannot forget the look on my mother's fave when I told her that I failed. Dear readers  do you think it is wise to date older people?